The Winning Attitude
By: Ankesh KothariChapter 1.
THIS I beheld, or dreamed it in a dream:–
There spread a cloud of dust along a plain;
And underneath the cloud, or in it, raged
A furious battle, and men yelled, and swords
Shocked upon swords and shields. A prince’s banner
Wavered, then staggered backward, hemmed by foes.A craven hung along the battle’s edge,
And thought, “Had I a sword of keener steel–
That blue blade that the king’s son bears, — but this
Blunt thing–!” he snapped and flung it from his hand,
And lowering crept away and left the field.Then came the king’s son, wounded, sore bestead,
And weaponless, and saw the broken sword,
Hilt-buried in the dry and trodden sand,
And ran and snatched it, and with battle shout
Lifted afresh he hewed his enemy down,
And saved a great cause that heroic day.
– by Edward Rowland Sill
Action Summary:
- “Do what you can,
- with what you have,
- where you are.”
- Theodore Roosevelt
Chapter 2.
A 10-year-old boy decides to study judo despite the fact that he has lost his left arm in a devastating car accident.
The boy begins lessons with an old Japanese judo master. The boy is doing well, so he can’t understand why, after three months of training the master has taught him only one move.
The boy finally asks: “Sensei, shouldn’t I be learning more moves?”
The sensei replies: “This is the only move you know, but this is the only move you’ll ever need to know.”
Not quite understanding, but believing in his teacher, the boy keeps training.
Several months later, the sensei takes the boy to his first tournament. Surprising himself, the boy easily wins his first two matches. The third match proves to be more difficult, but after some time, his opponent becomes impatient and charges. The boy deftly uses his one move to win the match. Still amazed by his success, the boy is now in the finals.
This time, his opponent is bigger, stronger, and more experienced. For a while, the boy appears to be overmatched. Concerned that the boy might get hurt, the referee calls a time- out. He is about to stop the match when the sensei intervenes and convinces the referee to let him continue.
Soon after the match resumes, his opponent makes a critical mistake: he drops his guard. Instantly, the boy uses his move to pin him. The boy has won the match and the tournament. He is the champion!
On the way home, the boy summons the courage to ask what is really on his mind.
“Sensei, how did I win the tournament with only one move?”
“You won for two reasons,” the sensei answered. “First, you’ve almost mastered one of the most difficult throws in all of judo. And second, the only known defense for that move is for your opponent to grab your left arm.”
Action Summary:
- Turn your weaknesses into strength.
Chapter 3.
(John Kanary tells us the story of Charlie Boswell.)
Charlie is blinded during World War II while rescuing his friend from a tank that is under fire. After the war, even though Charlie is blind, he takes up a sport: Golf!
Through determination and a lot of hard work, he becomes the National Blind Golf Champion! He wins that honor 13 times.
One of his heroes is the great golfer Ben Hogan, so it truly is an honor for Charlie to win the Ben Hogan Award in 1958.
Upon meeting Ben Hogan, Charlie is awestruck and states that he has one wish and it is to have one round of golf with the great Ben Hogan.
Mr. Hogan agrees that playing a round together would be an honor for him as well, as he has heard about all of Charlie’s accomplishments and truly admires his skills.
“Would you like to play for money, Mr. Hogan?” blurts out Charlie.
“I can’t play you for money, it wouldn’t be fair!” says Mr. Hogan.
“Aw, come on, Mr. Hogan…$1,000 per hole!”
“I can’t, what would people think of me, taking advantage of you and your circumstance,” replies Mr. Hogan.
“Chicken, Mr. Hogan?”
“Okay,” blurts a frustrated Hogan, “but I am going to play my best!”
“I wouldn’t expect anything else,” say the confident Boswell.
“You’re on Mr. Boswell, you name the time and the place!”
A very self-assured Boswell responds “10 o’clock . . . tonight!”
Action Summary:
- Make others play to your rules.
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Some great insights here. Keep up the great work!
Thanks Neal for the encouragement!
Love this blog! This is definitely a refreshing site to see, and I love the stories. Inspiring–thanks!
Hi Michelle,
Thanks for liking this blog!
Would love it if you could some day write a guest post for this blog in your whacky funny style!
Wow!! This is truly awe-inspiring.Ankesh you should try re-writing Sun tsu’s Art of War.
Thanks Yorick.
Its my personal opinion that Art of War by Sun Tzu is timeless and re-writing it won’t make it better.
But maybe we could use one of its parables in a post and weave other morals around it…
cool man.. where do get these stories from.. They are really inspiring… keep your work goin..
Thanks Anil for your kind words.
Some people collect stamps. Some collect coins. I love collecting stories
Whenever I read or hear a good story, I try to note it down. There is no one specific source of the stories you’ll read on this blog.
Really inspiring…
Thanks Leon for the comment!
As inspiring as the Lord inspires us through the nature around to keep up the good work, no matter what it brings.
Regards
Umm… Thanks Anupam.
This blog is very empowering, inspiring and motivating. Loved every bit of it.. keep it up!!
Thank You Anamika for your kind words of encouragement!
one of the best blogs that a read so far. keep on doing – please
really good
That is pure awesomeness Ankesh.Totally in awe of the action plan 2.
A welcome change with the blogosphere gettin cluttered with toxins:-)
For some unknown reason, I really believe that a greater consciuss power sent me straight to this blog ,especially because I feel its so relevant to what eva i’m actually going through during this perid of my life.
Blessings and beyond… may your talents ever be a manifestation of windows of opportunity for many other individuals too.
great inspirational.
Simply amazing